It's important for us to extend compassion and understanding towards others, including our spouses, neighbors, and even our enemies. We need to be willing to see past their weaknesses and flaws, and recognize that God's strength is at work in their lives as well. It can be difficult, but with God's help, we can learn to love and accept others for who they are, weaknesses and all. And in doing so, we can grow in our own humility, generosity, and vulnerability, becoming more like Christ in the process.